COUPLES AND SEX THERAPY
Dr. Lawing’s practice is full and she is not accepting new couples at this time.
“You don’t have to be interesting. You have to be interested.
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Dr. Lawing offers couples therapy as well as sex therapy. What’s the difference?
Couples Therapy
Couples therapy commonly deals with communication issues, problem-solving skills, conflict resolution, and/or infidelity. Dr. Lawing subscribes to the Gottman Method of Relationship Therapy:
“The goals of the Gottman Method include increasing closeness and friendship behaviors, addressing conflict productively, and building a life of shared meaning together. The Gottman Method involves customizing principles from the research to each couple’s particular patterns and challenges.”
Dr. Lawing’s methodology is also heavily influenced by the esteemed relationship expert Esther Perel.
Sex Therapy
Issues in couples therapy may or may not deal directly with a couple’s sex life. However, when couples attend sex therapy, discussions about sex are definitely on the agenda. In fact, it is usually the primary focus of the work to be done. Sex therapy is a specialized type of psychotherapy.* Through sex therapy, concerns about sexual function, sexual feelings, and intimacy are addressed as an individual or as a couple. Sex therapy can be effective for adults of any age, gender and sexual orientation.
Sex therapy is typically short term in duration, with a limited number of sessions. However, treatment plans depend on the concerns and goals being addressed. The following are common issues focused on in sex therapy:
Concerns about sexual desire or arousal
Concerns about sexual interests or sexual orientation
Impulsive or compulsive sexual behavior
Erectile functioning concerns
Ejaculating early (premature ejaculation)
Difficulty with sexual arousal
Trouble reaching orgasm (anorgasmia)
Painful intercourse (dyspareunia)
Intimacy issues related to a disability or chronic condition
Concerns regarding past unwanted sexual experiences
*Sex therapists do not have sexual contact with clients, nor do they engage in sexual surrogacy or sexual coaching that involves physical contact. Therapy homework assignments are completed by the patient, privately, at the patient’s own home.